Ppl of all sorts

No matter of countries. Everybody behave differently. Everybody have their their funny way of surviving in this world. Well, I see it as funny as I hope to be as optimistic as possible...

Recently, I sense that one colleague is less friendly towards another.  Colleague A is undergoing major restructuring of her family bcos she has (soon to be had) a cheating husband. Or so I thought.

In this world, everything happens for a reason. And it depends on each individual on how u see the story... for me, I give everyone the benefit of the doubt. Unless I hate the person hardcore. Even in a car accident, I see myself if I'm in the wrong first.

So, this colleague whose quite dear to me, is having her second divorce. It's really difficult for her initially. But she's now stronger and trying to settle her issues. However,  colleague B feels like A is taking things for granted. Well, a lot of things. Or should we say, enough to piss her off.

Both of them were really close when I just got to know them. A will send B home when they finish work. They will go for dinner together. This is what I heard and understand.  But B was unhappy that A is making use of people or glorifying some things that she's doing. There's some habits that B thinks its bad.

For example, A kept complaining that she's short of cash and how her lawyer is saying nasty things to her. On the other hand, she's buying gadgets and luxury goods but saying its bcos her kids needed them. If one were to analyse the situation, I believe that would be the last required thing. Even if your kids are noisy, you educate them. Throwing them a tablet wont solve the problem. In my opinion, it creates more problem. Like they will fight over who uses it more, they show they wanna watch, etc.

In another case, B asked if A wanted to buy moonies when there was a bazaar, A mentioned that she don't take mooncakes. However,  today A opened the moonies that was supposed to be for tomorrow's celebration. I would say its my fault bcos I forgot to mention that. I told her she can eat. B was unhappy when A came to want to open the second mooncake. She was almost whining when I asked if she already finished the first one.  So much for "I dont eat moon cake." I think it should be, I don't want to pay for a mooncake.

My way of surviving is putting my woes on a platform that nobody around me sees. I don't tell anyone about this blog and do not reveal any person particulars. It is never my intention to bitch about people. I just wish to have a channel for expressing myself. Penning something down also help to construct my views to certain things. 

.when things are difficult, don't make them impossible.